Understanding by default
Everyone here knows what it is to manage their mental health. You are met with empathy between equals, not curiosity or pity.
The community
Mental Health Singles Community and Member Stories
Make genuine connections and find lasting friendships in a safe, supportive space where you can be yourself. Your mental health is part of your story, not a barrier to finding someone special.
What the community is like
Friendship as well as dating
Plenty of members find genuine friendships here too. Connection is connection, and it all helps.
At your own pace
No pressure to share more than you want, or to move faster than feels right. Quiet days are allowed.
Member stories
The stories below are representative examples of the kind of experience members describe. They are illustrative while we gather and verify real member reviews to feature here with permission.
"The relief of not having to explain my anxiety on a first date. He already understood, because he lives with his own thing. We just talked like normal people."
"I had given up on apps. The constant bracing for a reaction was exhausting. Here I felt safe enough to actually be myself from the first message."
"We have not met up yet, but having someone who gets the bad weeks without me having to spell it out has been worth everything on its own."
"I came for dating and found a couple of real friends along the way. There is no judgement here, and that is rarer than it should be."
Looking after each other
This is a kind place by design, and we work to keep it that way. Members can report anything that does not feel right, and our moderation team acts quickly. If someone is clearly going through a hard time, the community and the team gently point towards real support. We are a place to meet people who understand, and we are honest that a dating site is not a substitute for professional care. You can read the full set of protections on our Trust and Safety page.
Find your people
Free to join. A safe, supportive space to be yourself and meet someone who understands.